How long it has been since you did any selfless work?  Do you know what is selfless work? You have always been doing works that always fetched you some benefits. But did you do any works that do not fetch you any benefits? First of all you just cannot accept the concept of "doing work that does not fetch any benefits". That is your problem. The secret of opening any locks in your lives or finding solutions for your problems do not come by reading books or browsing google.  The truth is that the "solutions for your problems" need to drop in to your mind from space. How they can drop it? First of all you do not have empty mind. It is all filled unnecessary and some necessary busy thoughts (of which you cannot find solutions for your problems).  The locks are always connected to the SELFLESS work that you do in the world. To start with, on weekends, you can either was dishes at your home, do bath room cleaning and such mean cleaning jobs. You sho...